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Unapologetically Black: Why We’re Done Asking for Permission

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In this episode of Need to Know, Dr. Nsenga Burton delivers a powerful reflection on Black advocacy through the lens of empowerment, intersectionality, and political betrayal. Drawing on a deep historical foundation, she unpacks the tireless work of Black Americans who have fought not just for their freedom, but for civil rights that uplift all Americans, often without receiving that same solidarity in return. Dr. Burton confronts the double standards Black activists face, especially when their movements prioritize Black lives unapologetically. She examines recent examples of political abandonment, voter suppression, and the alarming disparities in Black maternal health, challenging listeners to recognize the unique burdens placed on the Black community. Through personal narratives and sharp analysis, she affirms that Black advocacy is not only justified—it’s essential and morally grounded. This is a call to reject guilt-tripping narratives and honor the right of Black communities to lead, center, and define their struggles and triumphs.

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00:00: Introduction and Welcome

00:43: Historical Context of Black Activism

02:32: Current Issues and Lack of Support

04:40: Personal Stories and Systemic Failures

08:36: Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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BEP Narrator:

A Black Executive Perspective.

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Now presents need to know with

the award-winning hyphenated Dr.

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Nsenga Burton.

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Dr.

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Burton, what do we need to know?

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Dr. Nsenga Burton:

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Good morning and welcome

to Need To Know with Dr.

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Nsenga Burton.

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I am she.

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Today, I'm here to talk to you about

the information on the web or I

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would say there is some discussion

on the web about where black folks.

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Right.

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We know that you all are upset

about Kamala Harris not winning

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the election, and you should be

participating in these protests.

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You should be organizing the

protests, all the things.

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And, um, I would like to address the fact

that we are not your property anymore.

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I would like to address that.

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So, um, there was a time for fairly

recent history when black people

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collectively, that would be the

advocates, the activists, those who

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are on the right side of history.

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Not all of us, but many.

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Um, we're marching and being

beaten down by the police.

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Um, there was a time when we were, and

actually it's been the last 20 years,

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it's been longer than recent history,

but whatever, um, where we were like,

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Hey, listen, you know, our voting rights.

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Uh, which means your voting

rights are gonna be in trouble.

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Um, our civil rights, which means your

civil rights are gonna be in trouble.

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Our reproductive rights, which mean

your reproductive rights are gonna be in

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trouble, um, have been, I mean, we've been

screaming it, you know, from the top of

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the mountains to the lowest hills and, um.

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You know, received very little, um,

support, collaboration, collective

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action from other groups that benefited

from all of the work that was done

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primarily by African Americans, but

certainly I would say multicultural.

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Um, um.

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Uh, groups, um, that are on the right

side of history as well, but historically

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have been, you know, the, the torch has

been, uh, carried by black Americans.

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Um, so that we have all of these

rights that everyone gets to enjoy.

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You know, like we're not like other

groups, um, that you can look up at around

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the country where it's like, oh yeah,

we want civil rights, but just for us.

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Oh yeah, we want voting

rights, but just for us.

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Yeah.

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Y'all gotta get your own.

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No, no, no.

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We're gonna form 'em in a whole

nother party and we're gonna have

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like 25 different parties and we just

going each, you know, try to figure

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out we're, we're not doing that.

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You know, we don't want

reproductive rights just for us.

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We want everything for everybody.

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We are humanists, we live, uplift

everyone with our activism.

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So when all of those things went away.

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Um, and, uh, you know, in some shape

or way, shape or form when millions

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of us were disenfranchised by, um, at

best racist voting laws and at worst,

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uh, just very persnickety voting

laws that targeted, um, very specific

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demographics, especially us based

on how we historically have voted.

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Um, at least in recent history.

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Um, there was very little fanfare

outside of the black world, um, when

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those reproductive rights were hit.

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Very little fanfare.

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I mean, there's a black woman now on, um.

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She's brain dead and she's

being forced to carry a baby.

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Um, 'cause she was nine weeks pre

pregnant when she, uh, developed

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blood clots in her brain.

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She's a registered nurse, she's

in the hospital where she works.

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She's brain dead.

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Um, and there has been little fanfare

around the fact that she has been made

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to carry, uh, to continue on in this

world even though she's effectively

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dead, uh, because of a nine week fetus.

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That is in her, um, a nine week, uh,

old baby that is in her, uh, her body.

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The baby's older now, obviously

'cause she's been on life

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support for three months.

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Um, very little fanfare.

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Um, but we warned you

about maternal mortality.

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We warned because what's happening

to us in ridiculous rates like

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an rn, she's a registered nurse

and is now on life support, okay.

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In the hospital in which, and

guess whose family's on the hook?

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Her family's on the hook for the cost.

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State is not covering it,

the family is covering it.

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They have to pay for it.

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All right?

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So anyway, we've been telling you

all, all these things for so many

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years and we are tired of telling you.

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We have organized protests and done

protests and some of them have been

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ridiculously effective and others

have, um, not, they've really just

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resulted in our incarceration abuse.

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And just more punitive laws, um, and

measures being passed, um, for us.

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So I say all of that to say when you're

like, where are the black people?

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I feel very safe saying,

well, where were you?

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Um, and we have fought historically

for everyone's rights, um, because

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we've been fighting for us as you

know, we're fighting for you too.

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Um, so we have the right

to not participate.

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In these protests because we

know what will happen to us now.

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They, they deported a black

man born, um, to a father.

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His father was Jamaican, served

in service for 20 something years.

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He's born on a military base, um, has

lived in the United States his whole life.

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They deported him to Jamaica.

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Why was, was his crime?

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Uh, he couldn't pay his rent.

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Was put out of his house, went

back to get some of his things,

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was reported for trespassing.

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Put him in jail.

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Initially they were going,

uh, and, uh, sent him to ice.

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Even though he's, uh, an American,

um, they're like, oh, you were

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born on the na uh, military base.

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You're not an American.

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So now we just gonna

change the constitution.

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We change the rules.

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We're just doing whatever

the hell we wanna do.

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Right.

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Um.

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And first they were trying to put

him, they put him on a plane in

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Nicaragua and he was like, I'm

the only English speaking person.

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I don't speak Spanish.

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So he said, Hey, hey, hey,

I'm an American citizen.

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Took him out now then they

put him on a plane to Jamaica.

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He's in Jamaica, has never been there.

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His, his entire life, whole family

has immigrated to the us so he

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doesn't even have family there.

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Um, and uh, I'm just,

have you heard about this?

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Okay.

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Probably not.

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Yeah.

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No.

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Okay.

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So we have other shit we're dealing with.

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Sorry, just trying not to cuss Tony.

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Um, but we have other stuff that

we are actually dealing with that's

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happening in real time that we are

actively organizing around, um, and

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being part of protest for people.

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Um, many of whom, and we know it's not

everybody we know, it's not everybody,

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but many of whom voted for 47 and

knew exactly what was going to happen.

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And now that it's happening, you just

didn't think it was gonna happen to you.

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And now you see that they just

don't care about the constitution.

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They don't care about law and order,

the rule of law, none of that stuff.

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They don't care.

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Well, we knew they didn't care

about police officers at the,

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the, uh, the insurrection, right?

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So we already knew that.

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But you all don't care about that.

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You just interested in law and order.

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And when this president sent, um,

the Marines in and not to be, uh,

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stereotype Marines, but I always

call 'em the fifth dimension.

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Because I don't know if you

met the Marines, and again, I

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come from a military family.

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I'm just gonna say the Marines

are different and they are

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sent in to seek and destroy.

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That is their mission.

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They, I call 'em the killers.

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I, I know.

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Uh, one of my cousins hates that.

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Hates it.

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I don't care.

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They're the killers.

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If you want something done right the

first time you send in the Marines,

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if you want somebody eliminated the

first time you send in the Marines,

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that is who 47 is sending to people

who are protesting ice in Los Angeles.

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I.

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That is who he's sending.

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So I say all that to say, we

are not gonna be a part of that.

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Y'all not gonna put us in jail.

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We got real shit we're working on.

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We're trying to get our rights back

so that you can have some again.

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Um, and we are trying to mobilize

and work around some of these

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issues that are happening in our

community that need our attention.

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Um, and so we are putting us

first, uh, for the first time ever.

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We're putting us first.

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Not the whole humanity, the whole

country, you know, other folk

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we're not, we're putting us first.

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Um, and so we're not gonna do that.

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And you don't get to tell us that.

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And rooted in you thinking you

can tell us what to do is white

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supremacy, um, is sexism, is

racism, is misogyny, all the things.

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Uh, we're not going to

cater to your paternalism.

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And the idea that you think that you

can tell us what to do, who to vote for,

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and that we're on the wrong side because

we're not, you know, we may or may not

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be 'cause many people are pro-Israel in

our community, but you know, we're not,

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uh, with what's happening in Gaza or

we are not, you know, a hundred percent

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behind certain things that are happening.

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Black people know as Professor Cru, and

if you know who she is, look her up.

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Um, says we know the difference

between bad and worse.

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Which is why we were trying to warn

you and why many of us voted, including

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some people who have historically been

Republican, voted for Kamala Harris.

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All right, now y'all, you

learning a hard lesson.

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You just gonna learn what we've already

been dealing with for almost 400 years.

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So that's all I got.

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I got the Kanye Shrug.

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Don't know what to tell you, but

you don't get to tell us what to

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do, when to do it, and how to do it.

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We will.

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We are in possession, complete possession

of our minds, our moral compass.

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Our moral compass, our moral

compass, and, uh, we get to decide

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when and how we want to protest.

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Stand up for, um, or fight for

the rights of all Americans as

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we have done throughout history.

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And with that in mind, I want

you to have a wonderful day.

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Make sure you tune in next

week to the need to know with

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Dr.

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Nsenga Burton

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and of course to A Black Executive

Perspective podcast and award-winning

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podcast that gives you many

sides of all of the issues.

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All right, so I will see you soon.

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Thank you for tuning in.

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Bye.

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